02 March 2009

Sorrowful, part three

The Sorrowful Mysteries, part three

3rd Sorrowful Mystery: The Crowning with Thorns

“They put a purple robe on him, then twisted together a crown of thorns and set it on him. And they began to call out to him, “Hail, king of the Jews!” Again and again they struck him on the head with a staff and spit on him. Falling on their knees, they paid homage to him. And when they had mocked him, they took off the purple robe and put his own clothes on him. Then they led him out to crucify him.” Mark 15:17-20

Let this mystery teach us to accept mockery and scorn for being disciples of Jesus.

Humiliation, in one form or another, is part of the package. It is only avoidable if we decide to deny Christ. In other words, we can either accept humiliation for the sake of our Savior, or live as hopeless worldly cowards.

This cuts right to the core of my insecure heart. I long to be accepted, well-liked, sought after, validated, successful, etc. All the things the world says are good and desirable. It certainly seems easier to get along in the world when you are not scorned for holding an unpopular belief. And it feels a lot less lonely to have the company of friends rather than be an outcast.

It’s not easy being a follower of Christ in a culture that feeds on public opinion and popularity. It requires moral courage and conviction.

We’ll never have it both ways. If we’re truly following Jesus, we are going to be mocked. We will be the object of scorn and ridicule. We are going to be dismissed as closed-minded, prudish, old-fashioned, intellectually-stunted, bigoted, fanatical, and yes, un-cool. If we’re not being treated as such, perhaps we’d better reexamine our lives and our faith.

If we don’t stand out from the world, if we don’t seem any different, then we could be in serious trouble.

I know how often I still try to lessen my humiliation or even dodge it completely. It costs dearly sometimes to stand firm in my faith, to go against the current societal tide, to defend the truth that others say is irrelevant.

But my sweet and humble Savior quietly listened to the vile mockery spewing from the soldiers’ mouths and thought of me. He decided that my soul was worth the humiliation. He could have sucked the air from their lungs with just a thought in his mind and silenced them, but He loved me – He loved them – more than He minded being insulted by those ignorant buffoons.

Discipleship will exact a price…at the very least, humiliation and scorn for His sake. Someday it might even cost our lives. But what is the cost of the alternative?

©2009 Jennifer Hartline

As always, I'd love to hear your thoughts.


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Dirtdartwife said...

Makes me remember how to treat those that humiliate or mock me for being Catholic. (I do fight back, but with charity- not the scorn they show me)

Dirtdartwife said...

PS... this reminds me of that horrid event at Irwin that you endured. I remember thinking how patient and kind you were because I was sitting right next to you- FUMING- that these people were saying those things. YOU showed me Christ's love that day.

Aussie Therese said...

humility is one of the hardest virtues. I know though that I just cannot compromise my faith for people's approval.

I have found that my resolve for this is strengthened when I frequent the sacraments.

Kate Wicker said...

Beautiful, Jennifer.

I agree with Aussie Therese: Humility is a tough virtue for me to develop. (I'm working on it big-time during Lent this year.)

As an aside, I actually wrote a piece on the 7 sorrows of Mary for Canticle last fall and found it really helped me to reflect on Mary and Jesus' sacrifice for us all.

What wonderful timing to write this series during Lent!

Your writing is honest and inspiring. Thanks for sharing.


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